People talking about needs, talking about value, then talking about feelings. If you want others to buy you Hermès, you first need to be able to afford Chanel. Between people, talk about interests, then talk about feelings. Only when you can support yourself will someone say they will support you. Women should not fantasize that men will come to save you in the future. To have an equal and lasting relationship between people, you must be strong and independent. No matter how rich someone is, it's not as important as being wealthy yourself. Interestingly, when you can afford Chanel, you won't be very moved by the Hermès others give you. So the romantic rescue fantasy you dreamed of in your youth is fundamentally a paradox. A man's love is just an illusion. Always remember: no one is coming.