Everyone has their own most suitable "way of eating"—that is, innate interests, personality, and talents. When you walk down the wrong path, life reminds you through pain, inefficiency, and frustration: this is not your track; but when you move in the right direction, you feel things flow more smoothly, become more enjoyable, and progress faster. The so-called "heaven telling you which rice bowl to eat from" is not actually mysticism, but the real world using results and feedback to tell you: where your strengths lie and where they don't. The resistance and flow in life are themselves a compass for your career direction.