Self-learning ability is a false proposition.

People who can search for tutorials, watch videos, and follow along with coding are already in the top 1% in China.
But this isn’t called strong self-learning ability; it’s called “not yet beaten down by reality.”
The truth is: most people don’t need tutorials; they need babysitting. They need someone to watch over them, guide them step by step, give them a push when they get stuck, and scold them a little when they want to give up.
The essence of education has never been “teaching people how to fish,” but rather “fishing with them.”
So-called hands-on learning, the core isn’t the hands, but the person standing beside you. Without immediate feedback, emotional support, or social pressure, 99% of people will give up by the third day.
This isn’t a problem with people; it’s human nature.
We overestimate the value of independent learning and underestimate the power of companionship. Those who truly learn something always have a tireless mentor behind them or an environment that forces them to persevere.
Self-learning? That’s a privilege of the 1%.